Over the last years, medias talked about a Marriage Strike which was followed by a Sex Strike. What's really going on?
According to researches done by the University of Maryland, the marriage rate has passed from 80 to 50 marriages per 1000 unmarried women between 1970 and 2000. I was told businesses around the marriage industry were having serious troubles lately as the rate was much lower in the recent years.
So what's happening? Ever since the feminist movement, lots of men are struggling to find their place in relationships. Women have become masculine and men have lost their gender role. The natural polarity has been taken away from relationships. People started experiencing drama instead of passion in their relationships. Women tell men they're not good enough. Medias tell men it's their fault. Gurus tell men to improve themselves. People run around fixing themselves without realizing what's really going on.
Over the years, men and women have lost touch with their authentic self in the Western society. The workplace became more competitive and fast-paced. Women became more like men. People went away from religions. People became more in their heads and less connected to their hearts. People have based their lives on production and accomplishment and forgot about authenticity and well-being. These are very real changes but you have to go outside the country to see the difference. Over the last few years, lots of people woke up to spirituality and started to see what's really going on.
Why would a man ever want to get married when half of the marriages end up in divorce? Especially when he faces all kind of drama and there isn't much attraction and polarity in the relationship. 74% of my subscribers believe there is something missing in how men and women relate in the Western world. This doesn't encourage people to marry.
Here are some statistics about divorces according to divorcereform.org.
The difference between USA and Mexico is perturbing: 4.95 vs 0.33 divorces per 1000 habitants! There are 15 times more divorces in America than in Mexico. No wonder why white Americans may become a minority by 2040 due to Hispanic birth rate. These statistics show the geographical delimitations of what I call the Western world where dating became struggling: United States, United Kingdon, Denmark, New Zealand, Australia and Canada. There are other European countries that didn't have statistics. Somehow Russia and Puerto Rico are also on the list of high divorce rates but probably for other reasons
In my experience, relationships with some women from foreign countries who didn't do any kind of self-development provide a better relationship experience than with some of the most spiritually evolved women in Canada who do a lot of self-development. I identified 3 key points that made all the difference:
1. They suspend their inner criticizing voice
2. They are open to meet new people
3. They are authentically feminine
Unfortunately, very few Western women have these basic aspects. I came up with two questions that needed to be answered:
1. Why do so many women keep their criticizing voice running instead of accepting and embracing life and people as they are?
2. Why do Western women who got back in touch with their femininity almost always have an even stronger masculine side?
I found the answer to the second question.
The solution is to reconnect with your authentic self and to connect with authentic people. However, if we look at men who were the most successful in uncovering their purity and attracting women, there's one who had women all over him in England. He got bored of them and moved to South America. I'm will also move to South America soon. The other men who have a lot of success with women seem to travel a lot.
If you're not living in one of the listed countries, it's much easier for you. Otherwise, it's one thing to get the best experiences you can from women around. It's another thing to experience strong chemistry with authentic feminine women abroad. It's yet another thing to experience that strong chemistry back home. You have to ask yourself which level you are aiming at.
Sexual Magnetism will guide you to uncover your authentic self so you can effortlessly attract authentic women. It is theoretical, practical and applied.
