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7 Traits of Sexually Attractive Men

What makes a person sexually attractive? Some guys with almost perfect bodies can't get girls while other men who who don't have the looks are surrounded by women. Let's talk about 7 main aspects that make a person attractive.

1. Boldness. Some people do whatever they want no matter what people think. They say what passes on their mind directly. They may go sit down with random girls. They dress the way they like. They may have a touch of goofiness but they respect people. This fearlessness is very inspiring and attractive. Who doesn't want that freedom?

2. Presence. Charismatic men are not living in their dreams of the future or stuck in their past stories. Their future unfolds by living in the present moment. These people are fully present in their bodies instead of being stuck in their mental thoughts. They flow with life in this state of well being.

3. Authenticity. Attractive men don’t hide behind fears and masks. They are authentic, congruent and transparent. It’s not enough just to be yourself. You must remove fears and social conditioning to uncover the powerful and pure authentic self within you.

4. Inner Power. The greatest aphrodisiac for women is power. When someone has inner power, his presence commands respect and he does not need to force anybody. Powerful men have the courage and strength to step up when necessary. This makes women feel safe.

5. Carefreeness. Charismatic men don’t worry about what people think. They don’t worry about the details of their life either. They remain calm when facing problems. It’s refreshing to be around people who lives their lives with so few worries. The big problems of life become smaller and the small pleasures become bigger.

6. Openness. Charismatic men like to meet new people. They do not live defensively. They know how to listen. They learn from other people's experiences. These people are often connected with a lot of people.

7. Awareness. Charismatic men are aware of what happens around them. They are aware of who people are and they can feel a woman’s heart and integrity. This instantly connects people together. It sometimes makes them feel like they have known each others for a long time.

Etienne Charland - Attraction and Intimacy Specialist
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What is the male version of Aegyo?

I have two questions for you guys. Show me your genius!


I said that women who use Aegyo don't abuse of their power but I was wrong. Some women in Thailand do abuse of Aegyo to get men broke.  It works very well on Western men who crave for love. The power of masculinity is to make things happen, which is all what the Western world is about. The power of femininity is getting whatever you need from your environment out of love and respect, which is a forgotten concept in the West and sometimes abused in the East. A few rare people have a good balance of both powers.


Examples of Aegyo can be found here.


First question. Aegyo is using a peak Shakti state to show purity, love and beauty. There were good examples of it in the last post. What would be the male equivalent of Aegyo? Try to find examples of peak Yang state to show presence, unshakable confidence and undeniable charisma. Leave comments with what you find!


Second question. One of the main concepts I teach is to give to people instead of trying to take from them. "Seduction" has a connotation of trying to take from people so it has a connotation mismatch with what I do. What do you personally prefer? Shamanic Seduction or Shamanic Attraction? Let me know your thoughts!


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Montreal Empowerment & Attraction Workshop With Rion & Etienne

After the huge success of our coaching week-end two weeks ago, we are doing it again. This was a legendary transformational experience for everyone. Reading about self-improvement is one thing. Experiencing it is another. Me and Rion's energies amplify whenever we get together bringing us even more power to impact your life beyond words and beyond logic. You WILL sense energies with me. You WILL reach pack states with Rion. Your beliefs WILL change and your limiting beliefs WILL dissapear. You WILL learn and experience things we haven't yet teaches to anyone.

Knowledge becomes awareness through experience.

"Find a way to book time with Rion and Etienne.  Seeing in person such subtly powerful but somehow effortless communication with women, meeting other guys in the Relational Mastery Program, as well as understanding how to truly empower your beliefs, was worth infinitely more than a lifetime of courses with all other PUA coaches combined. This is the rarest and best thing out there for your whole life as a man, not just with women."    -Frank, USA

This event is for you if you want authenticity, self-esteem, spiritual freedom, relationship freedom, physical intimacy, emotional intimacy, well-being, sexual magnetism, charisma and self-healing.

Sign-up for the coaching week-end here.

By signing-up before September 21st, you will get a free 30 minutes phone call with Rion before the event ($97 value) AND the $137 Sexual Magnetism eBook from Etienne for free.

Etienne Charland - Seduction and Intimacy Specialist

How to Improve Dating in America

Many people wonder about the difference between dating in the Western World vs. the rest of the world. Anything you do to meet women will be much easier in cultures where people look at you in the eyes and talk with their neighbors. But what if you live in Las Vegas, New-York or Montreal?

It is much easier to learn natural seduction and to develop charisma by traveling abroad, but eventually you’ll be back to your home country. With what I teach, getting laid is the easiest thing in the world. Just find one or two joyful, intuitive and loving women and you have an unlimited supply of quality sex. However, even finding the perfect woman will not solve the problem of loneliness and social disconnectedness. For example, I often have girls coming to my apartment in downtown Montreal, but in 16 months, I still haven’t spoken with my neighbors or had eye contact with them. So what can you do about it? First, become aware of the ambient culture around you. It’s like telling a fish what water is. He will never know until he gets out of it. Second, detach yourself emotionally from your cultural environment so you can be more open and vibe at much higher frequencies. Third, be a living example of another way of living and inspire people. Fourth, this is a cultural movement. Support the movement of restoring the emotional inter-connectedness in our society, of bringing back the feminine, intuitive and supportive aspect of live, and of living from our heart instead of from our head.

What if you can only find masculine independent women around you? It’s great for short-term fun but you won’t experience the same emotional intimacy. You’ll get drama instead. My advice is have fun with independent masculine women and the day you want something deeper or more serious, find a foreign woman or find one abroad. The divorce rate in America is over 50%, so unless you want to experience the same, do something different. Relationships are not only difficult for men but also for independent women. What are they going to do? Just solve your dating and relationship problems, you don’t have to take these women’s problems on your shoulders. If these women also want to improve their relationships, tell them to come see me to develop their femininity, to flow with life and to be more in their heart and body.